Introduction: In the recent years, various opinions about raising kids are emerging at a high rate, nonetheless, these two ideas are the most significant ones. It is said that a society full of selfish people will be created if we let children to make personal choices about aspects of daily life, whereas some people believe that it is fundamental that the kids have the allowance to decide on those aspects. This essay will discuss both views.
Primarily, children being permitted to choose what they like in everyday matters will only think about themselves as they grow up. Explaining for this, when we let children do what they like freely, as an instinct, they will only think of the consequences happening to themselves. Since this mindset is developed at a very young age, it will be easily developed during the growing process of the youngsters and will be very hard to change. This essay agrees with the view due to the significance of the results. For example, a science study claimed that most toddlers become more selfish after a long period of time being given the permission to make their own decisions in eating, drinking and other daily activities.
By contrast, it is also essential for the youngsters to act as their preference. To be specific, freedom in decision making in life will help them to develop greater confidence as well as independence because no reliance on other people was caused if we let the toddlers act this way. As great as the idea may seem, it cannot be agreed with this perception as the children still need a foundation of listening and obeying skill before growing up. For instance, researches show that a sense of confidence and independent can still be improved in older kids.
Conclusion: In summary, while acting as preference is important in a great way for a child to grow up becoming an independent person, adverse ramifications might happen if parents are not careful. Therefore, it is suggested that parents should really understand their sons or daughters before deciding of which method of raising fit them best.
Introduction: In the recent years, various opinions about raising kids are emerging at a high rate, nonetheless, these two
ideas
are the most significant ones. It
is said
that a society full of selfish
people
will
be created
if we
let
children
to
make
personal choices about aspects of daily life, whereas
some
people
believe that it is fundamental that the kids have the allowance to decide on those aspects. This essay will discuss both views.
Primarily
,
children
being permitted
to choose what they like in everyday matters will
only
think
about themselves as they grow up. Explaining for this, when we
let
children
do what they like
freely
, as an instinct, they will
only
think
of the consequences happening to themselves. Since this mindset
is developed
at a
very
young age, it will be
easily
developed during the growing process of the youngsters and will be
very
hard
to
change
. This essay
agrees
with the view due to the significance of the results.
For example
, a science study claimed that most toddlers become more selfish after a long period of time being
given
the permission to
make
their
own
decisions in eating, drinking and other daily activities.
By contrast, it is
also
essential for the youngsters to act as their preference. To be specific, freedom in
decision making
in life will
help
them to develop greater confidence
as well
as independence
because
no reliance on other
people
was caused
if we
let
the toddlers act this way. As great as the
idea
may seem, it cannot be
agreed
with this perception as the
children
still
need a foundation of listening and obeying
skill
before
growing up.
For instance
, researches
show
that a sense of confidence and independent can
still
be
improved
in older kids.
Conclusion: In summary, while acting as preference is
important
in a great way
for a child to grow up becoming an independent person, adverse ramifications might happen if parents are not careful.
Therefore
, it
is suggested
that parents should
really
understand their sons or daughters
before
deciding of which method of raising fit them best.