Many argue that admitting harsh realities, for example, undesirable job or lack of money is the most effective way to go on in life. Yet others put forward the view that a better way is to strive for ameliorating those stark conditions and work for success in life. In the case, I agree with the latter view.
On the one hand, many a person succumb to hardship, be it an unsatisfactory profession, scarcity of money or a bad relationship. The most prominent reason is their paradigm of thought. According to their claim, good or bad conditions are merely states of mind or a trick of fate. They believe that if people live in a lavish situation but their mind perceives it as an awful condition, that reality will be terrible and vice versa. They also believe that they have nothing to do when fate has reserved something for them. A case in point is one of my distant uncles, who, despite having many opportunities, does not look for a better occupation. He feels happy with his condition expressing gratitude to God and he feels that this is what destiny has allowed him to have.
On the other hand, many others claim that people can translate their bad condition into a good one by assessing their current reality. In other words, they need to find out what is their strength, weakness, and opportunity. After knowing their advantages, lackings, and opportunity, they can devise a strategy. A good example here is one of my unemployed friends who assessed his situation that he was good at report writing but lacked necessary technical skills. Then he equipped him with technology skills he needed to be a freelance journalist. He sat up his own business, and these days he is quite successful.
In conclusion, at one point or another life presents us with an unwanted turn of events. It may be an unsatisfactory situation that we are not prepared to deal with. In my opinion, we should keep our emotion in check so that we can make a more reasonable decision about how to deal with this difficult condition. We ought to learn new set skills so as to improve our condition as well.
Many
argue that admitting harsh realities,
for example
, undesirable job or lack of money is the most effective way to go on in life.
Yet
others put forward the view that a better way is to strive for ameliorating those stark conditions and work for success in life. In the case, I
agree
with the latter view.
On the one hand,
many
a person succumb to hardship, be it an unsatisfactory profession, scarcity of money or a
bad
relationship. The most prominent reason is their paradigm of
thought
. According to their claim,
good
or
bad
conditions are
merely
states of mind or a trick of fate. They believe that if
people
live
in a lavish situation
but
their mind perceives it as an awful
condition
, that reality will be terrible and vice versa. They
also
believe that they have nothing to do when fate has reserved something for them. A case in point is one of my distant uncles, who, despite having
many
opportunities, does not look for a better occupation. He feels happy with his
condition
expressing gratitude to
God and
he feels that this is what destiny has
allowed
him to have.
On the
other
hand,
many
others claim that
people
can translate their
bad
condition
into a
good
one by assessing their
current
reality. In
other
words, they need to find out what is their strength, weakness, and opportunity. After knowing their advantages,
lackings
, and opportunity, they can devise a strategy. A
good
example here is one of my unemployed friends who assessed his situation that he was
good
at report writing
but
lacked necessary technical
skills
. Then he equipped him with technology
skills
he needed to be a freelance journalist. He sat up his
own
business, and these days he is quite successful.
In conclusion
, at one point or another life presents us with an unwanted turn of
events
. It may be an unsatisfactory situation that we are not prepared to deal with. In my opinion, we should
keep
our emotion in
check
so
that we can
make
a more reasonable decision about how to deal with this difficult
condition
. We ought to learn new set
skills
so as to
improve
our
condition
as well
.