In our modern and constantly changing societies, financial ability of a person plays an important role in almost any aspect of one's life, so it is not a surprise that many young people who are in their reproductive years, wanting to get married bring it to their considerations. But the question that still remains is that whether the money should influence one’s marital choices or should they still rely on choosing someone only based on love.
Marrying for love can be a really tough choice to make, because parents-especially those that have struggled with money all their lives- might not approve such a marriage. Because in their biased opinions, wealth is of paramount importance above all other qualities that a potential proposer might have. They think that if they can afford the trappings of a luxurious life, there would not be any other problem. But unfortunately, this kind of assumptions are really short-sighted and naïve. For example, many studies have shown that those individuals who chose their partners merely based on the fact that they are rich, report significant lower overall satisfaction rates with their merger.
On the other hand, many people choose their spouse out of the amount of affection they feel for them. They think that just because they have many similarities or they feel great when they spend time together, it is enough to carry them along the tortuous way of matrimony, however, this is also being simplistic and unrealistic. In real life, couples can face many difficulties if they cannot afford their living costs. Therefore, I think the right marriage lies somewhere between these two extremes. To explain more, a righteous candidate for a lifelong espousal not only must have the appropriate behaviour and attitude toward living with a partner, but also should demonstrate the ability to make enough money to live independently and help raise a family.
In conclusion, although marrying a wealthy partner might seem like a wise choice, in the long term, it can be detrimental to the psychological health of both partners and lower their overall happiness. Looking from a different aspect, just feeling love for someone does not make him or her the right candidate for a lifelong partnership, but to me a successful merger should share a combination of both qualities simultaneously.
In our modern and
constantly
changing societies, financial ability of a person plays an
important
role in almost any aspect of one's life,
so
it is not a surprise that
many
young
people
who are in their reproductive years, wanting to
get
married bring it to their considerations.
But
the question that
still
remains is that whether the money should influence one’s marital choices or should they
still
rely on choosing someone
only
based on
love
.
Marrying for
love
can be a
really
tough choice to
make
,
because
parents-
especially
those that have struggled with money all their
lives
- might not approve such a marriage.
Because
in their biased opinions, wealth is of paramount importance
above all
other qualities that a potential proposer might have. They
think
that if they can afford the trappings of a luxurious life, there would not be any other problem.
But
unfortunately, this kind of assumptions are
really
short-sighted and naïve.
For example
,
many
studies have shown that those individuals who chose their
partners
merely
based on the fact that they are rich, report significant lower
overall
satisfaction rates with their merger.
On the other hand
,
many
people
choose their spouse out of the amount of affection they feel for them. They
think
that
just
because
they have
many
similarities or
they feel great when they spend time together, it is
enough
to carry them along the tortuous way of matrimony,
however
, this is
also
being simplistic and unrealistic. In real life, couples can face
many
difficulties if they cannot afford their living costs.
Therefore
, I
think
the right marriage lies somewhere between these two extremes. To
explain
more, a righteous candidate for a lifelong espousal not
only
must
have the appropriate
behaviour
and attitude toward living with a
partner
,
but
also
should demonstrate the ability to
make
enough
money to
live
independently
and
help
raise a family.
In conclusion
, although marrying a wealthy
partner
might seem like a wise choice, in the long term, it can be detrimental to the psychological health of both
partners
and lower their
overall
happiness. Looking from a
different
aspect,
just
feeling
love
for someone does not
make
him or her the right candidate for a lifelong partnership,
but
to me a successful merger should share a combination of both qualities
simultaneously
.