Throughout history, friendship relationships have played a prominent role in personal life. Due to its paramount importance and direct impact on a given person, efforts for its improvements have always been amongst the top priorities of personal life. One of the issues regarding this topic is the spending time away from people we care about helping us to improve our relationship with them. Some people are inclined toward the opinion that being away from people we care about makes us realize how important they are to us, while others believe that spending time apart can damage or harm a relationship. I, despite the general consensus, contend that, we should spend as much time with our friends as possible. In what follows, I will aptly substantiate my viewpoint.
The first exquisite point to be mentioned is that striking a balance is a must in our relationships. Due to the complexity of new life, realistic limits are imposed on the amount of time we can spend with our friends. If we impose a low level of availability in our relationship too, others will become the top priorities of our life. After a while, we will adapt to spending time with our work, computer game, social network and so on. Studies show that, today social network become the best friend of 60 percent of people in Iran. In other word, they are rival of our friendship relationship. So, there is no doubt that absence really hurt to our relationship. To illustrate this issue, take a personal example, back in 2012, one day I think that spending a time away from my best friend help me to realize how important they are to me, but unexpectedly, results were completely different. I try to launch new work on campus, in this way became familiar with new people, spend all of time with them or at the office. Suddenly, I figure out we don’t have any common words, spending time apart cause to break our relationship.
Another equally significant point to be mentioned is that without keeping in touch with our friend, we can’t transfer our emotions to them. Spending time with them cause to talking about a variety of issues, we will become more familiar with their habits, emotions, concerns and so on. When they confront with a problem, we can help them to solve it. Take a personal experience as an example, I have a plethora of problems relating to the wedding party, not only are my friends supportive, but they also help me to manage problems. All efforts and presence beside me contributing to the fact that I realize how they are important for me.
In brief, contemplating all the aforementioned reasons, one soon realizes that spending our time a part of our friend not only couldn’t improve our relation but also have awful effect. Striking a balance is the most important factor in order to improve our friendship relationship. Consequently, it is highly suggested that people keep in touch with their friends.
Throughout history, friendship
relationships
have played a prominent role in
personal
life
. Due to its paramount importance and direct impact on a
given
person, efforts for its improvements have always been amongst the top priorities of
personal
life
. One of the issues regarding this topic is the
spending
time
away from
people
we care about helping us to
improve
our
relationship
with them.
Some
people
are inclined
toward the opinion that being away from
people
we care about
makes
us
realize
how
important
they are to us, while others believe that
spending
time
apart can damage or harm a
relationship
. I, despite the
general consensus
, contend that, we should spend as much
time
with our
friends
as possible. In what follows, I will
aptly
substantiate my viewpoint.
The
first
exquisite point to
be mentioned
is that striking a balance is a
must
in our
relationships
. Due to the complexity of new
life
, realistic limits
are imposed
on the amount of
time
we can spend with our
friends
. If we impose a low level of availability in our
relationship
too, others will become the top priorities of our
life
. After a while, we will adapt to
spending
time
with our work, computer game, social network and
so
on. Studies
show
that,
today
social network become the best
friend
of 60 percent of
people
in Iran. In other word, they are rival of our friendship
relationship
.
So
, there is no doubt that absence
really
hurt to our
relationship
. To illustrate this issue, take a
personal
example, back in 2012, one day I
think
that
spending
a
time
away from my best
friend
help
me to
realize
how
important
they are to me,
but
unexpectedly
, results were completely
different
. I try to launch new work on campus, in this way became familiar with new
people
, spend all of
time
with them or at the office.
Suddenly
, I figure out we don’t have any common words,
spending
time
apart cause to break our relationship.
Another
equally
significant point to
be mentioned
is that without keeping in touch with our
friend
, we can’t transfer our emotions to them.
Spending
time
with them cause to talking about a variety of issues, we will become more familiar with their habits, emotions, concerns and
so
on. When they confront with a problem, we can
help
them to solve it. Take a
personal
experience as an example, I have a plethora of problems relating to the wedding party, not
only
are my
friends
supportive,
but
they
also
help
me to manage problems. All efforts and presence beside me contributing to the fact that I
realize
how they are
important
for me.
In brief
, contemplating all the aforementioned reasons, one
soon
realizes
that
spending
our
time
a part of our
friend
not
only
couldn’t
improve
our relation
but
also
have awful
effect
. Striking a balance is the most
important
factor in order to
improve
our friendship
relationship
.
Consequently
, it is
highly
suggested that
people
keep
in touch with their
friends
.