There several ways parents bring up their kids; some prefer to be authoritarian, while others believe that being liberal is the best way to raise children. I believe that restricting young people is not a good idea. I feel this way for three main reasons, which I will explore in the following essay.
First of all, setting strict regulations result in resistance. All these principles made by mom and dad sometimes may be too demanding, which results in disobeying. Gradually, kids start to lie to their parents to get rid of extra punishments and quarrels. my personal experience is a compelling example of this. A couple of months ago my friend asked me out for a movie, however, (p) I was not allowed to go out with guys. Eventually, I had to tell my parents that I went to a movie with my best friends. In consequence, I did not obey my parents, instead, I lied. this situation describes that all these rules do not have any impact, but rather distance me from my parents and even can ruin our relationship. although parents believe that being authoritarian disciplines and brings up better qualities, young people hate being told what to do and being restricted, which in turn leads to aggression.
Secondly, since every decision was made by parents kids are tend to be indecisive and coward. some obedient children just follow the rules set by their parents. However, these little ones become unable to analyze and understand the true purpose of these restrictions. although teenagers are not capable of making decisions on their own, they still have to learn to take responsibility for their actions. For instance, recently a friend of mine went shopping with me for her very first time. she could not pick one jacket out of thousands, because she used to wear what her mom buys for her. she ended up calling her mom and asking which jacket she should buy. this example clearly shows that being too overprotective and authoritarian lacks children of confidence and independence. teenagers are not pets and they should not be told what to do. I strongly believe that it is better to give advice and help young people to choose the right path, instead of setting strict principles.
In conclusion, I think that parents should not be authoritarian and demanding. this is because setting strict rules is inefficient and leads to hesitation as noted above.
There several ways
parents
bring up their kids;
some
prefer to be
authoritarian
, while others
believe
that being liberal is the best way to raise children. I
believe
that restricting young
people
is
not a
good
idea
. I feel this way for three main reasons, which I will explore in the following essay.
First of all
, setting strict regulations result in resistance. All these principles made by mom and dad
sometimes
may be too demanding, which results in disobeying.
Gradually
, kids
start
to lie to their
parents
to
get
rid of extra punishments and quarrels.
my
personal experience is a compelling example of this. A couple of months ago my friend asked me out for a movie,
however
, (p) I was not
allowed
to go out with guys.
Eventually
, I had to
tell
my
parents
that I went to a movie with my best friends. In consequence, I did not obey my
parents
,
instead
, I lied.
this
situation
describes
that all these
rules
do not have any impact,
but
rather
distance me from my
parents
and even can ruin our relationship.
although
parents
believe
that being
authoritarian
disciplines and brings up better qualities, young
people
hate being
told
what to do and
being restricted
, which in turn leads to aggression.
Secondly
, since every decision
was made
by
parents
kids are
tend
to be indecisive and coward.
some
obedient children
just
follow the
rules
set by their
parents
.
However
, these
little
ones become unable to analyze and understand the true purpose of these restrictions.
although
teenagers
are not capable of making decisions on their
own
, they
still
have to
learn to take responsibility for their actions.
For instance
, recently a friend of mine went shopping with me for her
very
first
time.
she
could not pick one jacket out of thousands,
because
she
used
to wear what her mom
buys
for her.
she
ended up calling her mom and asking which jacket she should
buy
.
this
example
clearly
shows
that being too overprotective and
authoritarian
lacks children of confidence and independence.
teenagers
are not
pets and
they should not be
told
what to do. I
strongly
believe
that it is better to give advice and
help
young
people
to choose the right path,
instead
of setting strict principles.
In conclusion
, I
think
that
parents
should not be
authoritarian
and demanding.
this
is
because
setting strict
rules
is inefficient and leads to hesitation as noted above.