Every person work hard during his life to achieve more goals and become successful. Beside that setting a good relationship with others seems to be so much important too. Some people think graduating from a famous school and working hard during college time can lead them toward success. While, there are some other people who feel that generally bonding and craeting a well-organized relation with others can benefit them more. In my view, I believe that the ability to relate is so crucial in any occupation for two reasons.
First, people like to connect with individuals who share the sense of emphaty with others and mak social bonds easily. So, if you have a satisfactory ability of relating with other peers in work atmosphere or with the customers in your job, you may keep them for longer time even if they found you not smart enogh in your expertise. For example, four years ago, i had a friend Jimmy who worked at a restaurant bar where he served drinks for people. He always try to remember his customers and mostly whom which seem to be regular attendants. Also, he normally spoke so friendly with them and showed himself as an open person who like to listen to their sad or exhausting stories. This actually helped the bar to increase the number of its customers substantionaly. The manager asked him about the secret of his work that attracts so many people in order to come here and talk about their everyday life with him. He simply told that they just need a person to symphetize with them and pretend to understand their condition.
Second, the good relations can assist us in gaining success and reaching our future goals. Decent behavior and smart attitude in connecting with other people can present us to them so deeply in the first impression that they may not pay so much attention to our other poor characteristics which may keep us from reaching our dreams. These connections can also help us to improve in our career and may provide us with the chance to meet with top level individuals in our area much faster that can play the role of shortcut route for us. For instance, I really tried to be a singer but sadly I never had the chance. But, when i met a famous singer in a concert where my friend invited me, i had the chance to show myself.
In conclusion, having a good relationship with other persons in your work or any other place is so much important than any other thing. It can help you in achieving your needs so fastly. Also, it may help you to foul others about your personality and show them whatever they like to see in us. So, it is beneficial to work on our social skills sometimes too.
Every
person
work
hard
during his life to achieve more goals and become successful. Beside that setting a
good
relationship with others seems to be
so
much
important
too.
Some
people
think
graduating from a
famous
school and working
hard
during college time can lead them toward success. While, there are
some
other
people
who
feel that
generally
bonding and
craeting
a well-organized relation with others can benefit them more. In my view, I believe that the ability to relate is
so
crucial in any occupation for two reasons.
First
,
people
like to connect with individuals
who
share the sense of
emphaty
with others and
mak
social bonds
easily
.
So
, if you have a satisfactory ability of relating with
other
peers in
work
atmosphere or with the customers in your job, you may
keep
them for longer time even if they found you not smart
enogh
in your expertise.
For example
, four years ago,
i
had a friend Jimmy
who
worked at a restaurant bar where he served drinks for
people
. He always
try
to remember his customers and
mostly
whom which seem to be regular attendants.
Also
, he
normally
spoke
so
friendly with them and
showed
himself as an open
person
who
like to listen to their sad or exhausting stories. This actually
helped
the bar to increase the number of its customers
substantionaly
. The manager asked him about the secret of his
work
that attracts
so
many
people
in order to
come
here and talk about their everyday life with him. He
simply
told
that they
just
need a
person
to
symphetize
with them and pretend to understand their condition.
Second, the
good
relations can assist us in gaining success and reaching our future goals. Decent behavior and smart attitude in connecting with
other
people
can present us to them
so
deeply
in the
first
impression that they may not pay
so
much
attention to our
other
poor characteristics which may
keep
us from reaching our dreams. These connections can
also
help
us to
improve
in our career and may provide us with the chance to
meet
with
top level
individuals in our area
much
faster that can play the role of shortcut route for us.
For instance
, I
really
tried to be a singer
but
sadly
I never had the chance.
But
, when
i
met a
famous
singer in a concert where my friend invited me,
i
had the chance to
show
myself.
In conclusion
, having a
good
relationship with
other
persons
in your
work
or any
other
place is
so
much
important
than any
other
thing. It can
help
you in achieving your needs
so
fastly
.
Also
, it may
help
you to foul others about your personality and
show
them whatever they like to
see
in us.
So
, it is beneficial to
work
on our social
skills
sometimes
too.