There is an increasing trend around the world to have a small family rather than a large family. What are some of the advantages and disadvantages of having a small family rather than a large family? v.7
There is an increasing trend around the world to have a small family rather than a large family. What are some of the advantages and disadvantages of having a small family rather than a large family? v. 7
Traditions and customs are in a state of flux nowadays. One result of these cultural upheavals is that parents in many countries are now choosing to have fewer children than in the past. In this essay, I will examine what I consider to be the main advantages and potential drawbacks, from both children’s and parents’ perspectives, of having smaller families.
The benefits of having only one or two children are obvious. On a very basic level, a smaller family means more money and more time together. Whereas parents with many children tend to spend their days juggling school drop-offs, and extracurricular activities, not to mention work and running a home, those with only one or two have far fewer demands on their time and wallets. From the child’s point of view too, if they are an only child or have just one sibling, they will receive far more attention and emotional support than if they were battling with five or six others. This attention can have long-term benefits not just for their self-esteem, but in their academic and professional life too.
Despite these positives, many people still consider a small family problematic. From the parents’ viewpoint, there may be concern for their own welfare in old age. Indeed, there is a risk when a couple has no children or only one, that there will be nobody to care for them when they retire or become old and frail. In my country, such people will often end up in state-owned aged care facilities, which can be less than luxurious. In addition to this practical matter, some people also feel that by having only one child, parents are creating selfish ego-maniacs. Rather than benefiting from parents’ attention as mentioned above, these youngsters can be over-parented and, some would argue, grow up spoiled and entitled.
In conclusion, although families are getting smaller in general, whether this is positive or not depends on the individual. Personally, while I can acknowledge the potential problems, I feel that smaller families are ultimately better off.
Traditions and customs are in a state of flux nowadays. One result of these cultural upheavals is that
parents
in
many
countries are
now
choosing to have fewer
children
than in the past. In this essay, I will examine what I consider to be the main advantages and potential drawbacks, from both
children’s
and
parents’
perspectives, of having smaller families.
The benefits of having
only
one or two
children
are obvious. On a
very
basic level, a smaller
family
means more money and more time together. Whereas
parents
with
many
children
tend to spend their days juggling school drop-offs, and extracurricular activities, not to mention work and running a home, those with
only
one or two have far fewer demands on their time and wallets. From the child’s point of view too, if they are an
only
child or have
just
one sibling, they will receive far more attention and emotional support than if they were battling with five or six others. This attention can have long-term benefits not
just
for their self-esteem,
but
in their academic and professional life too.
Despite these positives,
many
people
still
consider a
small
family
problematic. From the
parents’
viewpoint, there may be concern for their
own
welfare in
old
age.
Indeed
, there is a
risk
when a couple has no
children
or
only
one, that there will be nobody to care for them when they retire or become
old
and frail. In my country, such
people
will
often
end
up in state-
owned
aged care facilities, which can be less than luxurious.
In addition
to this practical matter,
some
people
also
feel that by having
only
one child,
parents
are creating selfish ego-maniacs.
Rather
than benefiting from
parents’
attention as mentioned above, these youngsters can be over-parented and,
some
would argue, grow up spoiled and entitled.
In conclusion
, although
families
are getting smaller
in general
, whether this is
positive
or not depends on the individual.
Personally
, while I can acknowledge the potential problems, I feel that smaller
families
are
ultimately
better off.
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