One of the most difficult and important decisions a young person must make is whether to stay in their hometown, closer to family, or to move away and live in a new place. While both sides have their positive points, I would advocate for the latter option, since it is difficult to grow as a person unless you see more of the world.
When I first finished school, I opted to move to Chinatown in New York City, where I then lived for a few years. That time proved to be vital to who I have since become, largely because I had my first real exposure to cultures other than my own. Although I had certainly met people from other countries before, Chinatown was a new world to me. I learned to appreciate how widely different cultures’ foods can vary, for example. Moving away also created job opportunities for me. Within a month of moving to New York, I was working as a cook in a very highly rated restaurant, which is exactly what I wanted to do. Leaving home allowed me to figure out who I wanted to be in a way that wasn’t possible in my hometown.
Yet, some people are unwilling to leave home because doing so would require giving up something very precious--a deep sense community. A few years ago, one of my boyhood friends suffered a serious injury in a boating accident. My hometown community pitched in to help pay his medical bills and take care of some of his daily needs like cooking and grocery shopping. This overwhelming demonstration of support is a relatively normal occurrence in my hometown. People look out for one another, and help each other in myriad ways. Feeling deeply connected to others is reason enough to keep many within the community as young adults.
Indeed, when I left my hometown as a teenager, I could feel my safety net had been removed from below me. It was scary, but it was exactly what I wanted at the time. The adventure of taking risks and meeting new people has shaped my life in countless ways. That’s why, for me at least, leaving my hometown was the best choice.
One of the most difficult and
important
decisions a young person
must
make
is whether to stay in their
hometown
, closer to family, or to
move
away and
live
in a
new
place. While both sides have their
positive
points, I would advocate for the latter option, since it is difficult to grow as a person unless you
see
more of the world.
When I
first
finished school, I opted to
move
to Chinatown in
New
York City, where I then
lived
for a few years. That time proved to be vital to
who
I have since become,
largely
because
I had my
first
real exposure to cultures
other
than my
own
. Although I had
certainly
met
people
from
other
countries
before
, Chinatown was a
new
world to me. I learned to appreciate how
widely
different
cultures’ foods can vary,
for example
. Moving away
also
created job opportunities for me. Within a month of moving to
New
York, I was working as a cook in a
very
highly
rated restaurant, which is exactly what I wanted to do. Leaving home
allowed
me to figure out
who
I wanted to be in a way that wasn’t possible in my hometown.
Yet
,
some
people
are unwilling to
leave
home
because
doing
so
would require giving up something
very
precious--a deep sense community. A few years ago, one of my boyhood friends suffered a serious injury in a boating accident. My
hometown
community pitched in to
help
pay his medical bills and take care of
some
of his daily needs like cooking and grocery shopping. This overwhelming demonstration of support is a
relatively
normal occurrence in my
hometown
.
People
look out for one another, and
help
each
other
in myriad ways. Feeling
deeply
connected to others is reason
enough
to
keep
many
within the community as young adults.
Indeed
, when I
left
my
hometown
as a
teenager
, I could feel my safety net had
been removed
from below me. It was scary,
but
it was exactly what I wanted at the time. The adventure of taking
risks
and meeting
new
people
has
shaped my life in countless ways. That’s why, for me at least, leaving my
hometown
was the best choice.