The notion of Independence really varies from person to person. While some might say that being free, doing whatever they like doing, and making own decisions as independence, some other person may view independence as differently. So, the idea of independence really subjective topic. Yes, some adults want independence from their parents as soon as possible while some may want to stay with them for a longer period of time. Personally, I like living with them for a longer period time cause that is the time in which they will need us the most.
First, we as a human being, talk a lot about returning the favor to someone who has done a lot for us. For instance, our mother nature: environment. If we have such a notion for other things of returning the favor then why cannot we have the same feeling for our own parents? . They are the people who gave their lives just to make our life beautiful and prosperous. Just lately, a friend of mine, who got out of his home to seek independence, called me and said that his mother was ill and was upset about the fact that he was not there when his mother, who was a single mother and did all she could to help her son thrive, needed him the most. He also mentioned the fact that had he been there for his mother, he would not have had to face such a day.
Second, we are a social animal, we need a company to stay mentally sound. In a case when we feel bored and likewise we tend to seek a company of friends. why cannot we feel the same about our parents? . They also need some company to keep them busy and contained. When the children live with their parents for a longer period of time then they will feel very relaxed cause they are just worried about us. If that worrying continues for a longer period of time, that can lead to a serious mental problem. For example, one of my friend, who was settled in abroad, heard the news that her father was admitted to hospital for developing a small tumor in his head, but nothing serious. She immediately came to her own country and started spending time with her father. The result was astonishing. Her father started to recover real quick and within 1 month of operation, he was normal.
Therefore, I suggest that every adult should live with their parents a little more than they think. Our parents think of us as of their only world, but we are unable to give us our small time. So, we must do the most from our side not just to fulfill our responsibility, but also to fulfill their dreams and wishes.
The notion of
Independence
really
varies from person to person. While
some
might say that being free, doing whatever they like doing, and making
own
decisions as
independence
,
some
other person may view
independence
as
differently
.
So
, the
idea
of
independence
really
subjective topic. Yes,
some
adults want
independence
from their
parents
as
soon
as possible while
some
may want to stay with them for a
longer
period
of
time
.
Personally
, I like living with them for a
longer
period
time
cause
that is
the
time
in which they will need us the most.
First
, we as a human being, talk a lot about returning the favor to someone
who
has done a lot for us.
For instance
, our
mother
nature: environment. If we have such a notion for other things of returning the favor then why cannot we have the same feeling for our
own
parents
?
.
They are the
people
who
gave their
lives
just
to
make
our life
beautiful
and prosperous.
Just
lately, a friend of mine,
who
got
out of his home to seek
independence
, called me and said that his
mother
was ill and
was upset
about the fact that he was not there when his
mother
,
who
was a single
mother
and did all she could to
help
her son thrive, needed him the most. He
also
mentioned the fact that had he been there for his
mother
, he would not have had to face such a day.
Second, we are a social animal, we need a
company
to stay mentally sound. In a case when we feel bored and
likewise
we tend to seek a
company
of friends.
why
cannot we feel the same about our
parents
?
.
They
also
need
some
company
to
keep
them busy and contained. When the children
live
with their
parents
for a
longer
period
of
time
then they will feel
very
relaxed
cause they
are
just
worried about us. If that worrying continues for a
longer
period
of
time
, that can lead to a serious mental problem.
For example
, one of my friend,
who
was settled
in abroad, heard the news that her father
was admitted
to hospital for developing a
small
tumor in his head,
but
nothing serious. She immediately came to her
own
country and
started
spending
time
with her father. The result was astonishing. Her father
started
to recover real quick and within 1 month of operation, he was normal.
Therefore
, I suggest that every adult should
live
with their
parents
a
little
more than they
think
. Our
parents
think
of us as of their
only
world,
but
we are unable to give us our
small
time
.
So
, we
must
do the most from our side not
just
to fulfill our responsibility,
but
also
to fulfill their dreams and wishes.