It is often debated how much freedom children should have. Although some people believe that the activities of children should be monitored closely by parents, others oppose this viewpoint. I, however, believe that parental supervision is only necessary until they are mature.
Children should be monitored until they reach a certain age because they are unaware of the world outside the secure environment of the home and they are not mature enough to understand the difference between good and bad. Consequently, they can fall an easy prey to a bad company of friends, if not guided by parents. Furthermore, the internet has a lot to offer apart from knowledge and information. To exemplify, one of my friend’s daughters misused social media websites to send obscene / vulgar messages to her male friends to draw their attention. These types of instances can be avoided if children use the internet under the surveillance of their parents.
On the other hand, there are some valid reasons to give children the freedom to make their choices. Firstly, after they reach a certain level of maturity, children should be encouraged to make their own decision. This practice will help them learn faster than those who are dependent on their parents for making decisions for them. Actually, learning from one’s own mistakes is easier than learning from the knowledge imparted by one’s parents.
In conclusion, I believe that until a certain age, children need parental guidance; however, once they are mature, they should be allowed to make their own decisions because this practice will help them to achieve greater success than when they are dependent on their parents.
It is
often
debated how much freedom
children
should have. Although
some
people
believe that the activities of
children
should
be monitored
closely
by
parents
, others oppose this viewpoint. I,
however
, believe that parental supervision is
only
necessary until they are mature.
Children should
be monitored
until they reach a certain age
because
they are unaware of the world outside the secure environment of the
home and
they are not mature
enough
to understand the difference between
good
and
bad
.
Consequently
, they can fall an easy prey to a
bad
company
of friends, if not guided by
parents
.
Furthermore
, the internet has a lot to offer apart from knowledge and information. To exemplify, one of my friend’s daughters misused social media websites to
send
obscene / vulgar messages to her male friends to draw their attention. These types of instances can
be avoided
if
children
use
the internet under the surveillance of their parents.
On the other hand
, there are
some
valid reasons to give
children
the freedom to
make
their choices.
Firstly
, after they reach a certain level of maturity,
children
should
be encouraged
to
make
their
own
decision. This practice will
help
them learn faster than those who are dependent on their
parents
for making decisions for them. Actually, learning from one’s
own
mistakes is easier than learning from the knowledge imparted by one’s parents.
In conclusion
, I believe that until a certain age,
children
need parental guidance;
however
, once they are mature, they should be
allowed
to
make
their
own
decisions
because
this practice will
help
them to achieve greater success than when they are dependent on their
parents
.