Childhood is one the most important periods of any persons’ life. Humans most significant attitudes and behavioral attributes are shaped in this short but determining time. Some parents believe that children must be treated with discipline and strict rules to be successful in future. However, some others think letting the off springs to have more freedom of choice and independency would benefit them more. In my view, I guess raising the children as independent thinkers can help them more in their future life ahead because of some reasons which I am going to mention here.
First, raising the children as independent minds would assist them to decide in crucial moments of their life. When you let your son or daughter to decide about a matter that your family has confronted with, you are showing indirectly that he or she is also an important member of the team and their say worth something. This can consequently benefit them when they face with a problem of their own and parents are not there to decide emplace of them. But, if their parents practice these sorts of situations with them during their childhood, they can easily deal with it and come up with an appropriate solution to solve it. For example, I myself have experienced this kind of condition in many occasions of my life, since my parents forced me to think about the right thing to do in every situation I experienced in my childhood. Generally, I would not saw any reason why they were doing this and found it always annoying. However, now that I grew up, I can clearly understand why my parents were doing that things since now I am using it in my own son.
Another main reason about this is because of the creativity it brings with itself normally. When you have to choose for yourself without any body else assist, it may seem akward at first but it pushes you to use your own imagination to come up with a few novel pathways to solve your problem since there is not any person to do it for you. For instance, my friend Jimmy never liked to be present in most of the math classes but our teacher was so clever and remember who cut the classes in the middle. After one or two session he was tired of sitting bored in math class so decided to do something about it. He taped himself in a recorder and gave it to me to play it when our math teacher called his name. So as you can see children can solve their own problems and coorect their mistakes if they may be provided with enough space to act.
In sum, raising children in the best way it could happen is one the parents challenging duties. Some of them may use difficult measures for their treatment where some others give the children the time and space to learn and decide for themselves independently. With these reasons I believe any parents can easily know which one of those can coach the children in the long run.
Childhood is
one
the most
important
periods of any persons’
life
. Humans most significant attitudes and behavioral attributes
are shaped
in this short
but
determining time.
Some
parents
believe that
children
must
be treated
with discipline and strict
rules
to be successful
in future
.
However
,
some
others
think
letting the off springs to have more freedom of choice and
independency
would benefit them more. In my view, I guess raising the
children
as independent thinkers can
help
them more in their future
life
ahead
because
of
some
reasons
which I am going to mention here.
First
, raising the
children
as independent minds would assist them to
decide
in crucial moments of their
life
. When you
let
your son or daughter to
decide
about a matter that your family has confronted with, you are showing
indirectly
that he or she is
also
an
important
member of the team and their say worth something. This can
consequently
benefit them when they face with a problem of their
own
and
parents
are not there to
decide
emplace
of them.
But
, if their
parents
practice these sorts of situations with them during their childhood, they can
easily
deal with it and
come
up with an appropriate solution to solve it.
For example
, I myself have experienced this kind of condition in
many
occasions of my
life
, since my
parents
forced me to
think
about the right thing to do in every situation I experienced in my childhood.
Generally
, I would not
saw
any
reason
why they were doing this and found it always annoying.
However
,
now
that I grew up, I can
clearly
understand why my
parents
were doing that things since
now
I am using it in my
own
son.
Another main
reason
about this is
because
of the creativity it brings with itself
normally
. When you
have to
choose for yourself without
any body
else assist, it may seem
akward
at
first
but
it pushes you to
use
your
own
imagination to
come
up with a few novel pathways to solve your problem since there is not any person to do it for you.
For instance
, my friend Jimmy never liked to be present in most of the math classes
but
our teacher was
so
clever and remember who
cut
the classes in the middle. After one or two
session
he
was tired
of sitting bored in math
class
so
decided to do something about it. He taped himself in a recorder and gave it to me to play it when our math teacher called his name.
So
as you can
see
children
can solve their
own
problems and
coorect
their mistakes if they may
be provided
with
enough
space to act.
In sum, raising
children
in the best way it could happen is
one
the
parents
challenging duties.
Some
of them may
use
difficult measures for their treatment where
some
others give the
children
the time and space to learn and
decide
for themselves
independently
. With these
reasons
I believe any
parents
can
easily
know which one of those can coach the
children
in the long run.