Parents tend to use multiple ways in order to control their child's behavior. Many people seem to believe that the best way to make children obedient is by beating. Although moderate punishment might be justified, however, I believe that frequent spanking is entirely unacceptable, and this essay will provide evidence on it.
Starting with what parents fear is their child getting spoiled. Corporal punishment exactly does that as children become stubborn and develop ways to evade punishments. Though it might yield temporary benefit, smacking makes child immune to it in the long run. Moreover, due to the fear of a penalty, a child may develop a bad habit like telling lies, and this will stick with him forever. Thus, instead of shaping his character, parents ruin it by barbaric acts.
Frequently hitting affects the overall well-being of children. He might develop psychological disorders like depression and alexithymia as he loses confidence in himself. Many psychologists now approve the fact that an adult's contempt and misanthropic behavior can be partly attributed to beating at the hands of his parents during childhood. Occasionally hitting children affects them physically: for instance, a hairline fracture or lacerated wound that go undiagnosed and lead to a disability. Furthermore, punishing transmits vertically through generations, and as a result, the victim may become an abuser in the future. Had there been less beating by parents in the past, children would have been treated well.
To conclude, parents hit children in order to make them organized. The downsides of this are multi-folds: making them immune, developing bad habits, causing mental and bodily injuries. Therefore, i opine that parents should treat their children with compassion so that the trend of hitting comes to an end.
Parents
tend to
use
multiple ways in order to control their child's behavior.
Many
people
seem to believe that the best way to
make
children
obedient is by beating. Although moderate punishment might
be justified
,
however
, I believe that frequent spanking is
entirely
unacceptable, and this essay will provide evidence on it.
Starting with what
parents
fear is their child getting spoiled. Corporal punishment exactly does that as
children
become stubborn and develop ways to evade punishments. Though it might yield temporary benefit, smacking
makes
child immune to it in the long run.
Moreover
, due to the fear of a penalty, a child may develop a
bad
habit like telling lies, and this will stick with him forever.
Thus
,
instead
of shaping his character,
parents
ruin it by barbaric acts.
Frequently
hitting affects the
overall
well-being of
children
. He might develop psychological disorders like depression and
alexithymia
as he loses confidence in himself.
Many
psychologists
now
approve the fact that an adult's contempt and misanthropic behavior can be partly attributed to beating at the hands of his
parents
during childhood.
Occasionally
hitting
children
affects them
physically
:
for instance
, a hairline fracture or lacerated wound that go undiagnosed and lead to a disability.
Furthermore
, punishing transmits
vertically
through generations, and
as a result
, the victim may become an abuser in the future. Had there been less beating by
parents
in the past,
children
would have
been treated
well.
To conclude
,
parents
hit
children
in order to
make
them organized. The downsides of this are multi-folds: making them immune, developing
bad
habits, causing mental and
bodily
injuries.
Therefore
,
i
opine that
parents
should treat their
children
with compassion
so
that the trend of hitting
comes
to an
end
.