Parenting is a very difficult challenge all around the world. Most of the parents consider punishment a better teaching method instead of listening and communicating with the children. However, to my mind, anything excess is bad. It I not deniable that the punishment is one of the easiest ways to teach children good or bad but it should not be the only way of teaching.
To start with, children are very sensitive, want love and care. They need their parents’ support and encouragement in every aspect of their life. So, it is considered by most of the psychologists that by giving harsh punishments too often parents are making their children prone to violence. Hence, it is now proven by social researchers that children learn less from punishments, becomes shy and insecure and it may affect their social behaviour.
However, it is deniable that children are naturally advantageous and curious about everything. Some are stubborn and need to deal differently. For such children, parents and teachers should adopt a strict but no-torture behaviour. It could include numerous methods such as scolding, taking their favourite belonging for a couple of days or limiting their leisure time. In addition, cancelling their pocket money for a month or cancel a weekend outing plan could be a better option rather than locking them alone in a dark room.
In conclusion, I surely believe that minor punishments could teach children the difference between right and wrong, however, the consequences could be different for every individual child. I suggest that there should be a proper and balanced communication of parents and teachers with the children.
Parenting is a
very
difficult challenge all around the world. Most of the
parents
consider
punishment
a better teaching method
instead
of listening and communicating with the
children
.
However
, to my mind, anything excess is
bad
. It I not deniable that the
punishment
is one of the easiest ways to teach
children
good
or
bad
but
it should not be the
only
way of teaching.
To
start
with,
children
are
very
sensitive, want
love
and care. They need their
parents’
support and encouragement in every aspect of their life.
So
, it
is considered
by most of the psychologists that by giving harsh
punishments
too
often
parents
are making their
children
prone to violence.
Hence
, it is
now
proven by social researchers that
children
learn less from
punishments
, becomes shy and insecure and it may affect their social
behaviour
.
However
, it is deniable that
children
are
naturally
advantageous and curious about everything.
Some
are stubborn and need to deal
differently
. For such
children
,
parents
and teachers should adopt a strict
but
no-torture
behaviour
. It could include numerous methods such as scolding, taking their
favourite
belonging for a couple of days or limiting their leisure time.
In addition
, cancelling their pocket money for a month or cancel a weekend outing plan could be a better option
rather
than locking them alone in a dark room.
In conclusion
, I
surely
believe that minor
punishments
could teach
children
the difference between right and
wrong
,
however
, the consequences could be
different
for every individual child. I suggest that there should be a proper and balanced communication of
parents
and teachers with the
children
.