From a general point of view, in today' s sophisticated era we observe, in which people' s lives is engaged with a plethora of relationships, it comes as no surprise that friends can play a vital role to make our life more convenience. However, how much we should be close to our friends has been a rather controversial issue among many individuals. There are many who believe that it is not possible that we tell the truth to our friends in all the conditions. I concur with this idea. In what follows, I shall elaborate more on this thesis by focusing on two reasons.
The first imperative reasons is that some issues are too private for everyone that prefers to no one be aware about it. It is needless to say that our friends, after our family members, are the closest people in our lives. But, there are some problems in our life that should remain as hidden as possible. Take a couple as an example, and let' s imagine that they have a bad arguement with eachother and all the night are insulting with a numerous dirty words together. Tomorrow day will go to the work and associate with their close colleagues, it would be a sheer shame if they completely express what happened last night and what words they did use for insulting each other. Therefore, I think it' s better that they avoid being honest and restate such a disgraceful story.
Another notable reason which deserves some words here is that sometimes we are encountered with a hard situation but we consider that as a good challenge that should be solved by ourselves, thus, no one should be aware from that. Despite of the fact that most of problems are unpleasant and disturbing, we sometimes embrace them to prove our abilities. But if our friends got aware of it, in no way would they leave us alone with that problem. For further illustration, a recent yet well-regarded study conducted at University of Gothenburg can be pointed out. The researchers found out that 85% of people who overcome their problems don' t say the truth of their story to their friends and family members.
To sum everything up, we can logically reach this conclusion that being honest with friends is not always the best choice since some matters are too secret and some of them can be good challenges for us. Thus, it is highly recommended that we avoid from being honest with friends in some certain aspects of our lives
From a general point of view, in
today&
#039; s sophisticated era we observe, in which
people&
#039; s
lives
is engaged
with a plethora of relationships, it
comes
as no surprise that
friends
can play a vital role to
make
our life more convenience.
However
, how much we should be close to our
friends
has been a
rather
controversial issue among
many
individuals. There are
many
who believe that it is not possible that we
tell
the truth to our
friends
in all the conditions. I concur with this
idea
. In what follows, I shall elaborate more on this thesis by focusing on two reasons.
The
first
imperative reasons is that
some
issues are too private for everyone that prefers to no one be aware about it. It is needless to say that our
friends
, after our family members, are the closest
people
in our
lives
.
But
, there are
some
problems
in our life that should remain as hidden as possible. Take a couple as an example, and
let&
#039; s imagine that they have a
bad
arguement
with
eachother
and all the night are insulting with a numerous dirty words together. Tomorrow day will go to the work and associate with their close colleagues, it would be a sheer shame if they completely express what happened last night and what words they did
use
for insulting each other.
Therefore
, I
think
it&
#039; s better that they avoid being honest and restate such a disgraceful story.
Another notable reason which deserves
some
words here is that
sometimes
we
are encountered
with a
hard
situation
but
we consider that as a
good
challenge that should
be solved
by ourselves,
thus
, no one should be aware from that.
Despite of
the fact that most of
problems
are unpleasant and disturbing, we
sometimes
embrace them to prove our abilities.
But
if our
friends
got
aware of it, in no way would they
leave
us alone with that
problem
. For
further
illustration, a recent
yet
well-regarded study conducted at University of Gothenburg can
be pointed
out. The researchers found out that 85% of
people
who overcome their
problems
don&
#039; t say the truth of their story to their
friends
and family members.
To sum everything up, we can
logically
reach this conclusion that being honest with
friends
is not always the best choice since
some
matters are too secret and
some
of them can be
good
challenges for us.
Thus
, it is
highly
recommended that we avoid from being honest with
friends
in
some
certain aspects of our
lives