Raising children require parents to make many efforts. Modern children-raising is become increasingly attach importance to well-rounded development of children. Some people think it is easier for parents to raise children than 50 years ago. However, from my perspective, I disagree with the statement.
Firstly, raising children nowadays need a growing number of material substances to be given than 50 years ago, which indicates raising children is more difficult. Modern children-raising is become increasingly attach importance to well-rounded development of children. Some parents want their children to stand out in the future, so they cost much on children’s interest cultivation. For example, my sister’s salary is 8 thousand Yuan per month. But my sister spends 50 thousand Yuan every year on children’s interest classes such as playing the piano, calligraphy, and dancing, which is a big strain on my sister. However, in modern parents’ eyes, more skills mean more competitiveness in the world. They do not want their children lay behind, since other parents do the same. So, raising children now is also a race of money, sometimes it can also cause stress on parents. But in 50 years ago there was no such trend that parents only need to feed their children, which was not that difficult.
Furthermore, raising children nowadays need more time spent in accompanying with children, which implies difficulty of raising children. Such as I mentioned above, if their children go to interest class, parents need to pick up their children. Commuting to the class venue is time- consuming. Besides, modern education always involves communication among parents and teachers. Parents have to report their children’s behavior at home every day. They have to supervise their children complete homework and answer their questions. It is annoying for parents sometimes since parents have their own work. On the contrary, in 50 years ago, there was no need to spend much time accompanying children. The children might have no homework, not mention to interest class.
Finally, raising children require parents spend more energy on their children than 50 years ago. To be more concrete, raising children needs more attention on children’s mentality. There are many children who are diagnosed with mental problems because of fierce competition. Children have too much stress to manage their own mood or brain. Sometimes they tend to be solitude, do not want to contact with others; sometimes they express their resistance to study; sometimes they feel depression and do not know how to get rid of it. This need parents, who are most intimate with children to observe and find out these mental problems. But in 50 years ago, children did not have such stress and it was likely they did not need much observation from parents.
In conclusion, today’s children raising need more money, time and energy on children than in 50 years ago, which illustrate raising children is more difficult than 50 years ago rather than easier.
Raising
children
require
parents
to
make
many
efforts.
Modern
children-raising
is become
increasingly
attach importance to well-rounded development of
children
.
Some
people
think
it is easier for
parents
to raise
children
than 50 years ago.
However
, from my perspective, I disagree with the statement.
Firstly
,
raising
children
nowadays
need
a growing number of material substances to be
given
than 50 years ago, which indicates
raising
children
is more difficult.
Modern
children-raising
is become
increasingly
attach importance to well-rounded development of
children
.
Some
parents
want their
children
to stand out in the future,
so
they cost
much
on
children’s
interest
cultivation.
For example
, my sister’s salary is 8 thousand Yuan per month.
But
my sister spends 50 thousand Yuan every
year
on
children’s
interest
classes such as playing the piano, calligraphy, and dancing, which is a
big
strain on my sister.
However
, in
modern
parents’
eyes, more
skills
mean more competitiveness in the world. They do not want their
children
lay behind, since other
parents
do the same.
So
,
raising
children
now
is
also
a race of money,
sometimes
it can
also
cause
stress
on
parents
.
But
in 50 years ago there was no such trend that
parents
only
need
to feed their
children
, which was not that difficult.
Furthermore
,
raising
children
nowadays
need
more
time
spent in
accompanying with
children
, which implies difficulty of
raising
children
. Such as I mentioned above, if their
children
go to
interest
class
,
parents
need
to pick up their
children
. Commuting to the
class
venue is
time-
consuming.
Besides
,
modern
education always involves communication among
parents
and teachers.
Parents
have to
report their
children’s
behavior at home every day. They
have to
supervise their
children
complete homework and answer their questions. It is annoying for
parents
sometimes
since
parents
have their
own
work.
On the contrary
, in 50 years ago, there was no
need
to spend
much
time
accompanying
children
. The
children
might have no homework, not mention to
interest
class
.
Finally
,
raising
children
require
parents
spend more energy on their
children
than 50 years ago. To be more concrete,
raising
children
needs
more attention on
children’s
mentality. There are
many
children
who
are diagnosed
with mental problems
because
of fierce competition.
Children
have too
much
stress
to manage their
own
mood or brain.
Sometimes
they tend to be solitude, do not want to contact with others;
sometimes
they express their resistance to study;
sometimes
they feel depression and do not know how to
get
rid of it. This
need
parents
, who are most intimate with
children
to observe and find out these mental problems.
But
in 50 years ago,
children
did not have such
stress
and it was likely they did not
need
much
observation from parents.
In conclusion
,
today
’s
children
raising
need
more money,
time
and energy on
children
than in 50 years ago, which illustrate
raising
children
is more difficult than 50 years ago
rather
than easier.