The question is whether parents should allow older children to take care of younger children or they should do this task by themselves. Everyone in consideration to his private view point may maintain a specific direction toward this issue. Some believe that the older are not mature enough to protect the younger while others have a conviction that giving such a crucial task to the older children can guarantee their current and future life through forming their personality. I am unanimous with the latter group, so the next paragraphs will vastly elucidate my vantage point through three salient reasons:
To begin with, it is their parents' task to ask them the labors which would reinforce children' s character particularly when children are in an age which can discern what type of work is good for them or bad. Labors such as taking out trashes, helping in house' s work or maintaining kids will cause the older children to find a responsibility toward their family and even friends. Meanwhile, when children recognize that their family have relied on them and required some important tasks, they will attempt to do their best and gradually their self-confidence will boost; as a result, an independent personality will emerge.
In addition, one should not forget that setting children in hard conditions would challenge their abilities. For instance, the older children are involved in a wide range of activities like doing assignment, participating in the miscellaneous classes, going to pool or book clubs and playing with their peers and list goes on. Requiring extra labors may give them a power to learn how to manage their work. They need an appropriate plan to take care of their younger siblings and at the same time do their assignment or play with their friends. In such a great circumstance, the older children can become a disciplined person that is very vital for their future.
Moreover, when parents offer the older to take care of their younger sisters or brothers, spontaneously a close and friendly relationship will be formed among them. To elucidate take my own experience. When I was a kid, continuously I was struggling with my younger brother; however, later my mother could find a job and she had to spend much time in her workplace; hence, I had to take care of my brother. During several months, our relationship changed and we were behaving kindly with each other. I should confess that it was a turning point in my life.
To sum up, this conclusion could be drawn that asking from the older children to take care of the younger can provides plentiful of merits for them such as improving their management skill, becoming an independent person and even creating a friendly relationship among siblings.
The question is whether parents should
allow
older
children
to take
care
of
younger
children or
they should do this
task
by themselves. Everyone in consideration to his private view point may maintain a specific direction toward this issue.
Some
believe that the
older
are not mature
enough
to protect the
younger
while others have a conviction that giving such a crucial
task
to the
older
children
can guarantee their
current
and future life through forming their personality. I am unanimous with the latter group,
so
the
next
paragraphs will
vastly
elucidate my vantage point through three salient reasons:
To
begin
with, it is their
parents&
#039;
task
to ask them the labors which would reinforce
children&
#039; s character
particularly
when
children
are in an age which can discern what type of work is
good
for them or
bad
. Labors such as taking out trashes, helping in
house&
#039; s work or maintaining kids will cause the
older
children
to find a responsibility toward their family and even friends. Meanwhile, when
children
recognize that their family have relied on them and required
some
important
tasks
, they will attempt to do their best and
gradually
their self-confidence will boost;
as a result
, an independent personality will emerge.
In addition
, one should not forget that setting
children
in
hard
conditions would challenge their abilities.
For instance
, the
older
children
are involved
in a wide range of activities like doing assignment, participating in the miscellaneous classes, going to pool or book clubs and playing with their peers and list goes on. Requiring extra labors may give them a power to learn how to manage their work. They need an appropriate plan to take
care
of their
younger
siblings and at the same time do their assignment or play with their friends. In such a great circumstance, the
older
children
can become a disciplined person
that is
very
vital for their future.
Moreover
, when parents offer the
older
to take
care
of their
younger
sisters or brothers,
spontaneously
a close and friendly relationship will
be formed
among them. To elucidate take my
own
experience. When I was a kid,
continuously
I was struggling with my
younger
brother;
however
, later my mother could find a
job and
she had to spend much time in her workplace;
hence
, I had to take
care
of my brother. During several months, our relationship
changed and
we were behaving kindly with each other. I should confess that it was a turning point in my life.
To sum up, this conclusion could
be drawn
that asking from the
older
children
to take
care
of the
younger
can provides plentiful of merits for them such as improving their management
skill
, becoming an independent person and even creating a friendly relationship among siblings.