It comes as no surprise that efforts to finding the most effective people for students by whom they are influenced have been always among the top priorities. A controversial question which is often raised regarding this issue is that whether teachers have more effects on students than their friends or not. I, to a great extent, concur with the idea that friends have greater influence on the students. The rationale behind this thesis will be elaborated by the most outstanding reasons.
The first exquisite point that makes me hold this belief is that young people are greatly receptive of their age mates. It goes without saying that people in the same age have similar concerns and attitudes; so, they can better influence each other. For example, a teacher cannot figure out the problems of students since he lived in different era, when he was in their age, which the condition definitely differ from present. Consider a student that have a problem and talk to his teacher and his friends. His friends can evaluate the problem from the student' s viewpoint and give him practical advises. But the teacher look at the problem from his angle which is totally differ from his prospective and so his advises are nonsense for student.
Another reason deserving some words here is that since friends spend a lot of time with each other, they can intentionally or unintentionally affect each other. When people spend time beside each other, they gradually obtain various behaviors from each other until their characteristics become the same. For example, if some people spend many time with each other, you can vividly see this similarity in them. Researches show people' s brain unintentionally receive information from the surrounding environment and imprints them in their mind. Whatsoever the more the information are repeated, the more effect they have on people' s behavior.
Finally, yet importantly, whatsoever students are comfortable with people, they get influence from them. Since the students are more comfortable with their friends rather than by teachers, friends have more effects on them. Teachers are usually elder than students; so, students must respect them and consider a proper distance between themselves and their teacher. In this circumstance, they do not feel comfort to talk with them and get their opinion about different matters in their life. On the other hands, friends are really comfortable with each other and can easily talk about their concerns and dilemma. As I remember, when I was in high school, I had a critical financial problem. First, I thought to consult with my teacher, but I was embarrassed about the subject and cannot talk to him. But, I talked to one of my friends, he kindly advices me and I could solve my problem by his advice.
In conclusion, contemplating all the aforementioned paragraphs, one can soon realize that students are more receptive of their friends since not only do they completely know others' needs and can better influence each other, but also they spend a lot of time with their friends and are more comfortable with them. It is highly recommended that parents not underestimate the value of choosing right friends for their children since they have huge impact on their behavior.
It
comes
as no surprise that efforts to finding the most effective
people
for
students
by whom they
are influenced
have been always among the top priorities. A controversial question which is
often
raised regarding this issue is that whether
teachers
have more effects on
students
than their
friends
or not. I, to a great extent, concur with the
idea
that
friends
have greater
influence
on the
students
. The rationale behind this thesis will
be elaborated
by the most outstanding reasons.
The
first
exquisite point that
makes
me hold this belief is that young
people
are
greatly
receptive of their age mates. It goes without saying that
people
in the same age have similar concerns and attitudes;
so
, they can better
influence
each
other
.
For example
, a
teacher
cannot figure out the
problems
of
students
since he
lived
in
different
era, when he was in their age, which the condition definitely differ from present. Consider a
student
that have a
problem
and
talk
to his
teacher
and his
friends
. His
friends
can evaluate the
problem
from the
student&
#039; s viewpoint and give him practical advises.
But
the
teacher
look at the
problem
from his angle which is
totally
differ
from his prospective and
so
his advises are nonsense for student.
Another reason deserving
some
words here is that since
friends
spend
a lot of
time
with each
other
, they can
intentionally
or
unintentionally
affect each
other
. When
people
spend
time
beside each
other
, they
gradually
obtain various behaviors from each
other
until their characteristics become the same.
For example
, if
some
people
spend
many
time
with each
other
, you can
vividly
see
this similarity in them. Researches
show
people&
#039; s brain
unintentionally
receive information from the surrounding environment and imprints them in their mind. Whatsoever the more the information
are repeated
, the more effect they have on
people&
#039; s behavior.
Finally
,
yet
importantly
, whatsoever
students
are
comfortable
with
people
, they
get
influence
from them. Since the
students
are more
comfortable
with their
friends
rather
than by
teachers
,
friends
have more effects on them.
Teachers
are
usually
elder than
students
;
so
,
students
must
respect them and consider a proper distance between themselves and their
teacher
. In this circumstance, they do not feel comfort to
talk
with them and
get
their opinion about
different
matters in their life. On the
other
hands,
friends
are
really
comfortable
with each
other
and can
easily
talk
about their concerns and dilemma. As I remember, when I was in high school, I had a critical financial
problem
.
First
, I
thought
to consult with my
teacher
,
but
I
was embarrassed
about the subject and cannot
talk
to him.
But
, I talked to one of my
friends
, he kindly advices me and I could solve my
problem
by his advice.
In conclusion
, contemplating all the aforementioned paragraphs, one can
soon
realize that
students
are more receptive of their
friends
since not
only
do they completely know
others&
#039; needs and can better
influence
each
other
,
but
also
they
spend
a lot of
time
with their
friends
and are more
comfortable
with them. It is
highly
recommended that parents not underestimate the value of choosing right
friends
for their children since they have huge impact on their behavior.