Nowadays, parents are sometimes accused of corrupting their children by being permissive to them. I think oppositely and believe that the permissive approach of the parents toward their children is not a problem.
The young are highly energetic and eager to explore the world. They have hunger for acquiring novel experiences and barely have strong concerns for anything that deter them from their goals. Therefore, they may take risks and participate in relentless acts with or without having their parents' permission. Modern psychology suggests giving the necessary knowledge to children and then the responsibility to decide what to do independently. Consequently, they will feel happy because of feeling the independency. Moreover, they mostly will choose the right thing if they have enough knowledge.
Having the permission to explore the world of exciting unknowns will produce a trusting atmosphere between children and parents. Thus, in case of any doubt or serious condition, the young will refer to their parents as their main supporters. I remember a friend of mine who was sexually harassed in a teenage party, where she was not allowed by her parents to go. However, she was afraid to tell the problem to them. Instead, she started to feel depressed and anxious.
Moreover, if children trust their parents and perceived them as friendly, supportive, and considerate guides they will freely talk about their new experiences and about their future plans. In this way, parents will become aware of any potential danger or wrongdoing and will be rather capable of protecting their naïve children from possible harms.
To come to a conclusion, permissiveness is not a problem especially when it is preceded by proper knowledge. Parents who feed their kids with useful information should not restrict their chance of experiencing their free will. I believe that being permissive is not a problem.
Nowadays,
parents
are
sometimes
accused of corrupting their
children
by being permissive to them. I
think
oppositely
and believe that the permissive approach of the
parents
toward their
children
is not a problem.
The young are
highly
energetic and eager to explore the world. They have hunger for acquiring novel experiences and
barely
have strong concerns for anything that deter them from their goals.
Therefore
, they may take
risks
and participate in relentless acts with or without having their
parents&
#039; permission. Modern psychology suggests giving the necessary knowledge to
children
and then the responsibility to decide what to do
independently
.
Consequently
, they will feel happy
because
of feeling the
independency
.
Moreover
, they
mostly
will choose the right thing if they have
enough
knowledge.
Having the permission to explore the world of exciting unknowns will produce a trusting atmosphere between
children
and
parents
.
Thus
, in case of any doubt or serious condition, the young will refer to their
parents
as their main supporters. I remember a friend of mine who was
sexually
harassed in a teenage party, where she was not
allowed
by her
parents
to go.
However
, she was afraid to
tell
the problem to them.
Instead
, she
started
to feel depressed and anxious.
Moreover
, if
children
trust their
parents
and perceived them as friendly, supportive, and considerate guides they will
freely
talk about their new experiences and about their future plans. In this way,
parents
will become aware of any potential
danger
or wrongdoing and will be
rather
capable of protecting their naïve
children
from possible harms.
To
come
to a conclusion, permissiveness is not a problem
especially
when it
is preceded
by proper knowledge.
Parents
who feed their kids with useful information should not restrict their chance of experiencing their free will. I believe that being permissive is not a problem.