Someone said that marriage is big responsibility. Family members and friends always argue that marriage before school and job is not good choice. Actually I agree with them because, firstly we you are marring you must be capable of taking all responsibility of other person financially and mentally. In order to do this u must finish graduation to get a good job. Its not good that your parents are taking your care of your expenses and instead of helping them you just increase their responsibility. By the time we get graduate degree parents are at the age of their retirement. If we ignore this parents may face lots of difficulty. So its always good take our responsibility.
When we are getting married we need to be mentally strong also because after that we are supposed to take care of whole family and ourselves. While being together as couple we must support each other. Together both husband and wife build their goals including trips, illness, new home, kids, their education and many other small things. If we try to these all things before finishing school and getting job. We will not able to focus on both things at a time. Human mind is designed as such that we can concentrate on one matter at a time otherwise there are possibilities of failing in all. For getting job and to finish school we are supposed to dedicate all our time for study only. Many schools have tough schedule. While following schedule we might ignore many important moments of our life.
I am girl. My marriage was fixed when I was only 21 yrs old and he was 22 yrs old. We both were studding at that time. We postponed our marriage and focused on studies and well paid job so that we can live happily together. In this time we could hardly find time for each other and family. After 5 yrs today we both have job, a good home and enough bank balance so that we can spend our life without any tensions. In this years we faced many difficulties while doing this all if we were married it would have been really difficult to do all. Now we are getting married this month. Now we both are ready to take all responsibilities together and we are ready financially as well as mentally. From my experience i totally agree that we must finish our studies and get job before marriage.
Someone said that
marriage
is
big
responsibility
. Family members and friends always argue that
marriage
before
school
and
job
is not
good
choice. Actually I
agree
with them
because
,
firstly
we you are marring you
must
be capable of taking all
responsibility
of
other
person
financially
and mentally. In order to do this u
must
finish graduation to
get
a
good
job
. Its not
good
that your parents are taking your care of your expenses and
instead
of helping them you
just
increase their
responsibility
. By the
time
we
get
graduate degree parents are at the age of their retirement.
If
we
ignore
this parents may face lots of difficulty.
So
its always
good
take our responsibility.
When we are getting married we need to be mentally strong
also
because
after that we
are supposed
to take care of whole family and ourselves.
While
being together as couple we
must
support each
other
. Together both husband and wife build their goals including trips, illness, new home, kids, their education and
many
other
small
things. If we try to these all things
before
finishing
school
and getting
job
. We will not able to focus on both things at a
time
. Human mind
is designed
as such that we can concentrate on one matter at a
time
otherwise
there are possibilities of failing in all. For getting
job
and to finish
school
we
are supposed
to dedicate all our
time
for study
only
.
Many
schools
have tough schedule.
While
following schedule we might
ignore
many
important
moments of our life.
I am girl. My
marriage
was
fixed
when I was
only
21 yrs
old and
he was 22 yrs
old
. We both were studding at that
time
. We postponed our
marriage
and focused on studies and well paid
job
so
that we can
live
happily
together. In this
time
we could hardly find
time
for each
other
and family. After 5 yrs
today
we both have
job
, a
good
home and
enough
bank balance
so
that we can spend our life without any tensions. In
this years
we faced
many
difficulties while doing this all if we
were married
it would have been
really
difficult to do all.
Now
we are getting married this month.
Now
we both are ready to take all
responsibilities
together and
we are ready
financially
as well
as mentally. From my experience
i
totally
agree
that we
must
finish our studies and
get
job
before
marriage
.