Having meals with families has long been an indispensible part of most people' s life and is usually recognized as an essential way to strengthen family bonding. However, the ever-rising stress of either study or work has made it less likely for family members to enjoy meals every day, which brings about a heated discussion: Whether it' s necessary for one to do this regularly? While some may firmly believe its necessity, I would argue that these regular meals do not have to be required for the following reasons.
To begin with, tightening family bonding, the major purpose of such family meals, could be much more easily and much better achieved through other modern methods. One concern of reducing such meals is that family members will lack opportunities to stay close to each other. However, the rapid development of high-tech products and numerous social networking websites have made it possible for us to contact the beloved family whenever and wherever. Plus, it seems that such meals bring people closer; however, it usually goes the other way around, which is, people tend to eat more and talk less at the table. Then how could they become closer under such a circumstance? For example, Chinese family members have witnessed and fully enjoyed the convenience brought by modern technologies. After graduation, children often seek better career chances in remote areas, even thousands of miles from home. However, family members are not alienated at all 猜词互动 the various super user-friendly social software, the most famous of which is named WeChat, the Chinese answer to Facebook. Various Chinese families set up group chats and share happiness and sorrows in their Moment. Most Chinese mothers prefer to post daily meals there, which is often humorously commented by their children. If it was at the table, the atmosphere is hard to be as relaxing as online.
Besides, taking family meals regularly will unconsciously bring much potential inconvenience to the members. For those who have work or are students, they may take pop-up tasks with usually close deadlines. However, influenced by the traditional value of most cultures, other family members may look at these ones with reproach. Nonetheless, it is unfair to put the blame on the busy members in that filial piety is never defined as " having meals regularly with your family" . Instead, as is discussed above, there are much more ways to show one' s care and attention towards family groups. Apart from this, another drawback lies in the undeniable fact that it is often the cooks themselves who wash most of the dishes after the meal. Thus the preparation and the cleaning work results in exhaustion of the cook. Another case could clearly illustrate my point. At dawn, you could easily find parents or grandparents line up in different vegetable market to purchase the most fresh vegetable, meat, and fruit. One common reason for their early getting up is that their children will come back for dinner and a family-style cuisine seems to be indispensible, one less concerned part being how busy the children are. They spend two to three hours chopping the meat, cutting the vegetable and the fruit, etc. After the meal, out of parental love, elder members frequently wash the dishes by themselves and ask the young to watch TV or enjoy other entertainment. Thus a seemingly harmonious family gathering indeed bother people' s life to different degree.
Admittedly, I am not saying that regular family meals are without advantages, because family members could physically see and talk with each other, which contributes to deeper understanding. However, the prevalent video chat could also easily achieve this aim, even if it is not physically face to face. Plus, with the developing transportation, people could easily visit each other when both have time, so lack of face-to-face connection should never be considered an obstacle. Furthermore, as family members, they have stayed together for a long time, thus they should already have a deep understanding of each other. Also, talking with each other, either when cooking or eating, may bring possible danger, such as splitting the boiling oil or biting one' s tongue.
In a nutshell, my viewpoint is that despite the easy-to-replace advantages, people does not necessarily have regular family meals. For one thing, they could enhance family bonding through better modern ways, such as through the Internet. For another, such meals will bring inconvenience to different family members.
Having
meals
with
families
has long been an
indispensible
part of most
people&
#039; s life and is
usually
recognized as an essential
way
to strengthen
family
bonding.
However
, the ever-rising
stress
of either study or work has made it less likely for
family
members
to enjoy
meals
every day, which
brings
about a heated discussion: Whether
it&
#039; s necessary for one to do this
regularly
? While
some
may
firmly
believe its necessity, I would argue that these regular
meals
do not
have to
be required
for the following reasons.
To
begin
with, tightening
family
bonding, the major purpose of such
family
meals
, could be
much
more
easily
and
much
better achieved through
other
modern methods. One concern of reducing such
meals
is that
family
members
will lack opportunities to stay close to each
other
.
However
, the rapid development of high-tech products and numerous social networking websites have made it possible for us to contact the beloved
family
whenever and wherever. Plus, it seems that such
meals
bring
people
closer;
however
, it
usually
goes the
other
way
around, which is,
people
tend to eat more and talk less at the table. Then how could they become closer under such a circumstance?
For example
, Chinese
family
members
have witnessed and
fully
enjoyed the convenience brought by modern technologies. After graduation,
children
often
seek better career chances in remote areas, even thousands of miles from home.
However
,
family
members
are not alienated at all
猜词互动
the various super user-friendly social software, the most
famous
of which
is named
WeChat, the Chinese answer to Facebook. Various Chinese
families
set up group chats and share happiness and sorrows in their Moment. Most Chinese mothers prefer to post daily
meals
there, which is
often
humorously
commented by their
children
. If it was at the table, the atmosphere is
hard
to be as relaxing as online.
Besides
, taking
family
meals
regularly
will
unconsciously
bring
much
potential inconvenience to the
members
. For those who have work or are students, they may take pop-up tasks with
usually
close deadlines.
However
, influenced by the traditional value of most cultures,
other
family
members
may look at
these ones
with reproach. Nonetheless, it is unfair to put the blame on the busy
members
in that filial piety is never defined as
"
; having
meals
regularly
with your
family"
;
.
Instead
, as
is discussed
above, there are
much
more
ways
to
show
one&
#039; s care and attention towards
family
groups. Apart from this, another drawback lies in the undeniable fact that it is
often
the cooks themselves who wash most of the dishes after the
meal
.
Thus
the preparation and the cleaning work results in exhaustion of the cook. Another case could
clearly
illustrate my point. At dawn, you could
easily
find parents or grandparents line up in
different
vegetable market to
purchase
the most fresh
vegetable, meat, and fruit. One common reason for their early getting up is that their
children
will
come
back for dinner and a family-style cuisine seems to be
indispensible
, one less concerned part being how busy the
children
are. They spend two to three hours chopping the meat, cutting the vegetable and the fruit, etc. After the
meal
, out of parental
love
, elder
members
frequently
wash the dishes by themselves and ask the young to
watch
TV or enjoy
other
entertainment.
Thus
a
seemingly
harmonious
family
gathering
indeed
bother
people&
#039; s life to
different
degree.
Admittedly
, I am not saying that regular
family
meals
are without advantages,
because
family
members
could
physically
see
and talk with each
other
, which contributes to deeper understanding.
However
, the prevalent video chat could
also
easily
achieve this aim, even if it is not
physically
face to face. Plus, with the developing transportation,
people
could
easily
visit each
other
when both have time,
so
lack of face-to-face connection should never
be considered
an obstacle.
Furthermore
, as
family
members
, they have stayed together for a long time,
thus
they should already have a deep understanding of each
other
.
Also
, talking with each
other
, either when cooking or eating, may
bring
possible
danger
, such as splitting the boiling oil or biting
one&
#039; s tongue.
In a nutshell, my viewpoint is that despite the easy-to-replace advantages,
people
does
not
necessarily
have regular
family
meals
. For one thing, they could enhance
family
bonding through better modern
ways
, such as through the Internet. For another, such
meals
will
bring
inconvenience to
different
family
members
.