You feel that you and your mother cannot agree on anything. Write a letter to a problem page asking for advice.

Dear Madam, By present letter, I would like to ask you a piece of advice that I face every day's thorny problem of compromising with my mother. I and my family have lived with my mother in a cramped apartment for ten years. Sharing a flat with my her was not difficult until my children were born. It is known to all that all kids cannot grow up without any fuss and noiseless. The problem is that I cannot explain clearly this simple situation to my mother. She is always complaining, shouting and punishing them as well all day. Consequantly, such kind of bitter frustration causes to increase high blood pressure. I have difficulty in dealing with both of them simultaneously because my children are also young infants. Naturally, I feel the need to be provided with constructive advice. Personally, your recommendations assist me to overcome these major obstacles in a sensible way. I would be grateful if you could give a prompt response at your earliest convenience. l am looking forward to hearing from you. Yours faithfully, Joanna.