Needless to say, a sundry of people there are who back the idea that telling some white lies is agreeable and it does not disturb relationships. However, I have personally subscribed to the view that evading from telling the truth is harmful. Not only does it diminish the reliability between the individuals but it also paves the way for doing other harmful actions.
Firstly, the first and the most prominent sense for lasting a relationship is the sense of honesty between two persons. having been told a lie, a person does not trust his partner anymore. For example, I am an emotional and profoundly sensitive person. I had a girlfriend who was in the relationship with me for many years. Seldom did she go to a place without telling me. One day, when I asked her to meet each other, she told me that she had an exam and she would rather have stayed at home and studied. Since I have never been heard a lie from her, I accepted. However, after a few days, I learned that she had concealed some facts and she had not any exam. I found out she was at a party that night. Consequently, I lost my reliance on her and never did I trust her again.
Secondly, undoubtedly, never can anybody ever cast a shadow of doubt on the fact that small and forgivable bad habits trigger people sometimes toward big crimes. A person, who is used to saying lies, is convenience with doing other unpleasant actions. For instance, I had a friend who was famous to be a liar. He was late for all classes at the university, and he told always unbelievable reasons for his delay. Everyone knew he was telling lies. There was a supermarket on our campus. My friend always took some goods from that supermarket without paying for them, and when the man in the supermarket asked him to pay, he lied as if he has given the money. This bad habit seemed a normal act to him, and he continued to steal different things from alternative shops. He became a thief, and he is captive in prison now. As a result, maybe telling a lie is not a big crime but tempts the individuals to other terrific tasks.
To put in the nutshell, in no account would I agree with the idea that we can hide the truth and tell lies. Neither of liars is dependable, and they are inclined to do bigger crimes. It is high time we got rid of our bad habits and tried to be honest in all situations.
Needless to say, a sundry of
people
there are
who
back the
idea
that
telling
some
white
lies
is agreeable and it does not disturb relationships.
However
, I have
personally
subscribed to the view that evading from
telling
the truth is harmful. Not
only
does it diminish the reliability between the individuals
but
it
also
paves the way for doing
other
harmful actions.
Firstly
, the
first
and the most prominent sense for lasting a relationship is the sense of honesty between two
persons
.
having
been
told
a lie, a
person
does not trust his partner anymore.
For example
, I am an emotional and
profoundly
sensitive
person
. I had a girlfriend
who
was in the relationship with me for
many
years. Seldom did she go to a place without
telling
me. One day, when I asked her to
meet
each
other
, she
told
me that she had an
exam and
she would
rather
have stayed at home and studied. Since I have never
been heard
a lie from her, I
accepted
.
However
, after a few days, I learned that she had concealed
some
facts and
she had not any exam. I found out she was at a party that night.
Consequently
, I lost my reliance on her and never did I trust her again.
Secondly
,
undoubtedly
, never can anybody ever cast a shadow of doubt on the fact that
small
and forgivable
bad
habits trigger
people
sometimes
toward
big
crimes. A
person
,
who
is
used
to saying
lies
, is convenience with doing
other
unpleasant actions.
For instance
, I had a friend
who
was
famous
to be a liar. He was late for all classes at the university, and he
told always
unbelievable reasons for his delay. Everyone knew he was
telling
lies
. There was a supermarket on our campus. My friend always took
some
goods
from that supermarket without paying for them, and when the
man
in the supermarket asked him to pay, he lied as if he has
given
the money. This
bad
habit seemed a normal act to him, and he continued to steal
different
things from alternative shops. He became a thief, and he is captive in prison
now
.
As a result
, maybe
telling
a lie is not a
big
crime
but
tempts the individuals to
other
terrific tasks.
To put in the nutshell, in no account would I
agree
with the
idea
that we can
hide
the truth and
tell
lies
. Neither of liars is dependable, and they
are inclined
to do bigger crimes. It is high time we
got
rid of our
bad
habits and tried to be honest in all situations.