Have you ever driven somewhere and realised when you arrived that you couldn’t really remember anything about the journey? Or have you ever eaten a whole packet of biscuits when you were planning to only have one? Or have you stayed up much later than you planned, or even all night, watching ‘just one more’ episode of a TV series? All of these are examples of mindlessness. When we live this way, we are not fully awake and not fully living our lives.
What exactly is mindfulness?
When we are mindful, we are more conscious of our thoughts, our actions and what is happening around us. We might notice a beautiful sunset or really listen carefully to what a friend is saying, rather than planning what we’re going to say next. We are also more aware of our own feelings and our thoughts. Jon Kabat Zinn, who has done a lot to make mindfulness popular, says mindfulness is: ‘Paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, and without judging. ’
So we are consciously deciding what to pay attention to, we are not worrying about the past or planning for the future and we are not trying to control or stop our thoughts or feelings – we’re just noticing them.
Why is mindfulness so popular now?
For most people life is getting busier and busier. Technology means that we always have something to do and there isn’t much opportunity to just ‘be’. People are often doing two or three things at the same time: texting while watching TV, or even looking at their phone while walking along the pavement. People are working longer hours and bringing work home. All this can make us stressed, and mindfulness can be a way of reducing this stress.
Have you ever driven somewhere and
realised
when you arrived that you couldn’t
really
remember anything about the journey? Or have you ever eaten a whole packet of biscuits when you were planning to
only
have one? Or have you stayed up much later than you planned, or even all night, watching ‘
just
one more’ episode of a TV series? All of these are examples of mindlessness. When we
live
this way, we are not
fully
awake and not
fully
living our
lives
.
What exactly is mindfulness?
When we are mindful, we are more conscious of our thoughts, our actions and what is happening around us. We might notice a
beautiful
sunset or
really
listen
carefully
to what a friend is saying,
rather
than planning what we’re going to say
next
. We are
also
more aware of our
own
feelings and our thoughts. Jon
Kabat
Zinn
, who has done a lot to
make
mindfulness popular, says mindfulness is: ‘Paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, and without judging. ’
So
we are
consciously
deciding what to pay attention to, we are not worrying about the past or planning for the
future and
we are not trying to control or
stop
our thoughts or feelings
–
we’re
just
noticing them.
Why is mindfulness
so
popular
now
?
For most
people
life is getting busier and busier. Technology means that we always have something to do and there isn’t much opportunity to
just
‘be’.
People
are
often
doing two or three things at the same time: texting while watching TV, or even looking at their phone while walking along the pavement.
People
are working longer hours and bringing work home. All this can
make
us
stressed
, and mindfulness can be a way of reducing this
stress
.