Nowadays some parents provide all requirements of children immediately, and children are allowed to do everything without any restriction. This parenting method has plenty of strict critics because children never learn their achievements are directly related to their efforts. In fact, after passing childish they are still completely dependent adolescents in the society.
It is evident, raising a child needs a targeted plan, and doesn't take place just by meeting their all requirements. All psychologists believe parents should meet initial needs of children at first such as food, health, education and clothing, but other requirements such as high-tech toys or laptop and others have to be provided based on their efforts at their studies. Moreover, Families can teach children saving money in order to buy something for themselves. First, children have to gather their daily money. After a period, when the child has enough money can buy that thing. A part of the prices could be provided by family directly, as well. Indeed, children have to consider a plan for each purpose at their lives.
According to official resources we are facing a generation that is growing up with low patience, and can't afford social challenges. Providing all of their demands has dramatically induced the instant gratification. Defining deadline for each target is unacceptable by children because everything has been accessible. Finally, this impatient generation doesn't know meeting needs is a slow and arduous process. Another significant and negative impact of buying eveything for children is the independency concept that has been neglected. When a child become an adolescent is not able to prepar his primary needs without his family. That is why numerous young people will be independent after years such as at their thertieth.
In conclusion, preparing whatever children want is considered an appropriate reaction to their demands because they never learn success is a slow and complex process. Children have to work persistently for achievements.
Nowadays
some
parents provide all requirements of
children
immediately, and
children
are
allowed
to do everything without any restriction. This parenting method has
plenty
of strict critics
because
children
never learn their achievements are
directly
related to their efforts. In fact, after passing childish they are
still
completely dependent adolescents in the society.
It is evident, raising a child
needs
a targeted plan, and doesn't take place
just
by meeting their all requirements. All psychologists believe parents should
meet
initial
needs
of
children
at
first
such as food, health, education and clothing,
but
other requirements such as high-tech toys or laptop
and others
have to
be provided
based on their efforts at their studies.
Moreover
, Families can teach
children
saving money in order to
buy
something for themselves.
First
,
children
have to
gather their daily money. After a period, when the child has
enough
money can
buy
that thing. A part of the prices could
be provided
by family
directly
,
as well
.
Indeed
,
children
have to
consider a plan for each purpose at their
lives
.
According to official resources we are facing a generation
that is
growing up with low patience, and can't afford social challenges. Providing all of their demands has
dramatically
induced the instant gratification. Defining deadline for each target is unacceptable by
children
because
everything has been accessible.
Finally
, this impatient generation doesn't know meeting
needs
is a slow and arduous process. Another significant and
negative
impact of buying
eveything
for
children
is the
independency
concept that has
been neglected
.
When
a child become an adolescent is not able to
prepar
his primary
needs
without his family.
That is
why numerous young
people
will be independent after years such as at their
thertieth
.
In conclusion
, preparing whatever
children
want
is considered
an appropriate reaction to their demands
because
they never learn success is a slow and complex process.
Children
have to
work
persistently
for achievements.