The idea that both parents should contribute actively to bringing up their offspring would seem hard to dispute. This does not mean however that all the tasks in the child they rearing process should be shared equally. The idea of tasks being shared equally between parents contains several assumptions. One assumption is that both parents have equal amounts of available time and are both available to do what is required at the time it is required. Clearly, this is often not the case. If, for example, a child needs help with some homework one evening and one parent is required to work late, the task falls to other parent. Therefore, despite genuine attempts to share duties equally, it will not always be practically possible to do so. The second assumption which is implied by the idea of sharing tasks equally is that both parents are equally well prepared or skilled to do all tasks. Again this is clearly not the case most of the time. For instance, it may be that the mother is a teacher and able to provide the kind of support the child needs with their homework more effectively than the father. In conclusion, it would seem that the 'equally ' point to view may not always be in the child's best interest. A more effective approach might be, for couples, to agree on how they can best use their resources. Even if this is accomplished, however, it is unlikely to be achievable constantly due to pratical restraints.
The
idea
that both
parents
should contribute
actively
to bringing up their offspring would seem
hard
to dispute. This does not mean
however
that all the
tasks
in the child
they rearing
process should
be shared
equally
. The
idea
of
tasks
being shared
equally
between
parents
contains several assumptions. One assumption is that both
parents
have equal amounts of available time and are both available to do what
is required
at the time it
is required
.
Clearly
, this is
often
not the case. If,
for example
, a child needs
help
with
some
homework one evening and one
parent
is required
to work late, the
task
falls to other
parent
.
Therefore
, despite genuine attempts to share duties
equally
, it will not always be
practically
possible to do
so
. The second assumption which
is implied
by the
idea
of sharing
tasks
equally
is that both
parents
are
equally
well prepared
or skilled to do all
tasks
. Again this is
clearly
not the case most of the time.
For instance
, it may be that the mother is a teacher and able to provide the kind of support the child needs with their homework more
effectively
than the father.
In conclusion
, it would seem that the '
equally
'
point to view may not always be in the child's best interest. A more effective approach might be, for couples, to
agree
on how they can best
use
their resources. Even if this
is accomplished
,
however
, it is unlikely to be achievable
constantly
due to
pratical
restraints.