Incorporating discipline in children is essential, especially while they are growing up. Few people believe that the best way to achieve this by punishing them physically. I completely disagree with this as using physical power is uncivilized and entirely unneeded.
Parenting styles are subjective and vary from family to family. There are many who have been following the method of smacking children in order to rectify their behavior. They believe that causing pain by corporal ways would leave a long lasting effect and children would refrain from repeating the same mistakes. Some people also think that using power would establish authority and as a result create a sense of fear among children. Thus, they would think twice before displaying any sort of bad manners.
Although maintaining order and discipline among children is important, controlling them by hitting is absolutely unnecessary. Though this will instigate fear among them, it will ruin the parent-child relationship. They would always be afraid of their parents and in turn might stop sharing their feelings with them. This can adversely affect their state of mind that might eventually lead to psychological disorder and inability to concentrate on studies. Conversely, sometimes such thrashing no longer has any effect and thus they are no more afraid of disrespecting or showing unorderly behavior. This might sometimes lead them to believe that they can obtain anything forcefully by using violence and thus indulge themselves in crime. Also, often parents, while physically punishing the children, unknowingly injure them severely and then regret forever.
In my opinion, even though disciplining children using physical power is preferred by some, it is definitely not the correct way as it would leave a negative impact on them.
Incorporating discipline in
children
is essential,
especially
while they are growing up. Few
people
believe that the best way to achieve this by punishing them
physically
. I completely disagree with this as using physical power
is uncivilized
and
entirely
unneeded.
Parenting styles are subjective and vary from family to family. There are
many
who have been following the method of smacking
children
in order to rectify their behavior. They believe that causing pain by corporal ways would
leave
a
long lasting
effect and
children
would refrain from repeating the same mistakes.
Some
people
also
think
that using power would establish authority and
as a result
create a sense of fear among
children
.
Thus
, they would
think
twice
before
displaying any sort of
bad
manners.
Although maintaining order and discipline among
children
is
important
, controlling them by hitting is
absolutely
unnecessary. Though this will instigate fear among them, it will ruin the parent-child relationship. They would always be afraid of their parents and in turn might
stop
sharing their feelings with them. This can
adversely
affect their state of mind that might
eventually
lead to psychological disorder and inability to concentrate on studies.
Conversely
,
sometimes
such thrashing no longer has any effect and
thus
they are no more afraid of disrespecting or showing
unorderly
behavior. This might
sometimes
lead them to believe that they can obtain anything
forcefully
by using violence and
thus
indulge themselves in crime.
Also
,
often
parents, while
physically
punishing the
children
,
unknowingly
injure them
severely
and then regret forever.
In my opinion,
even though
disciplining
children
using physical power
is preferred
by
some
, it is definitely not the correct way as it would
leave
a
negative
impact on them.